Born in New Jersey and of Indian descent, Kanan Gole chooses India over America — for a time. In “Going the Right Way” on The Smart Set, Gole explains why she made that choice and how it’s perceived by the Indians around her.
My decision to move to India to work was primarily motivated by my need for a stronger understanding of my heritage. There’s no other way to truly understand my Indian software except living where my parents lived. I look like an Indian, can dress like one, can sometimes speak like one too (though that is under construction), but I wouldn’t live up to the title “Indian.” It is difficult to define immigrant kid identity, so I try not to do it at all. I am simply part Indian, part American. Which parts? That’s too technical for me, a subject that will cause me unnecessary angst, and possibly one that won’t be resolved.Life is good, I must say. But people insist that only an idiot would move from the land of the dollar to the 68-times-weaker rupee.
Life is good, I must say. But people insist that only an idiot would move from the land of the dollar to the 68-times-weaker rupee.
from Longreads https://longreads.com/2017/04/10/choosing-mother-india/